"Why is that person like that?"

I wonder why there are people like that in the world.

We encounter selfish people unexpectedly in life.

It's not that we want to meet them, but like a traffic accident that could happen anywhere at any time, no matter how careful we are, we encounter them.

It's not easy for ordinary people to understand the mental state of selfish people. (And they don't need to.)

Maybe you'll want to be angry at fate for throwing such garbage into your life.

I recently met a selfish person who went back on their word.

Should I fight for my rights? Or should I endure it for the sake of my relationship with others? Or, should I endure it for my precious time?

From my long experience, I know that dealing with garbage will pollute my time and life, so I had to make a wise choice.

It's a waste of time to get angry at selfish people or invisible fate.

We must always choose a wise way for our precious selves.

Besides, it's not your fault that you met those people, so you don't need to carry it as a scar on your heart.

"Why is that person so selfish?"

Some people put their own needs and desires ahead of others. They often lack empathy or prioritize their own interests over considering the feelings of others.

It may feel inevitable to be hurt by such people, but the important thing is to find ways to overcome that hurt.

First, you need to acknowledge and accept the feelings that come up when you meet these people.

If you feel hurt, acknowledging it honestly is the first step to recovery.

Instead of suppressing or denying your feelings, look for what you can learn from them.

Next, you need to learn how to protect yourself and set your boundaries in this situation. It is an act of loving yourself and respecting your feelings.

Also, borrowing the power of forgiveness for your inner peace can be a way to deal with it. Forgiveness is not for others, but a choice for yourself.

Finally, in the process of overcoming the hurt from your relationships with selfish people, you should invest more time in loving and nurturing yourself.

Be kind and gentle to yourself and heal your wounded inner self. Don't keep the garbage that others gave you, throw it away immediately.

"I'll pass on you, garbage."

Meeting selfish people may be part of life. But the hurt we receive from them is never our fault or ours.

Anne Shirley has a beautiful saying.

"The world is so interesting, it's too precious to be deeply immersed in sadness."

You don't need to spend a long time in sorrow because of the hurt you received from selfish people. Our lives are filled with so many beautiful moments that are worth it.

Don't let a speck of a human being get in the way of our happiness.

Through a little painful experience, we can become stronger and learn to love ourselves.

It's important to cherish your feelings, learn to find positivity even in difficult relationships, and above all, put yourself first.

We may not be able to choose who we meet, but it is up to us how we react and how we grow from it.